Saturday, June 27, 2009

Change Management

· What is your value in the market?
· How can you market yourself?
· What is your brand?
· What is observed in you by the market?
· Are they observing you or trying to avoid you?
· Are you satisfied with yourself and your morality, if not you have some area of improvement?
· Review your old thoughts and start thinking a fresh.

All will start looking at you with surprise-allow them.
They will start criticizing - let them.

If what you are doing is good and does not harm anyone, then once it is completed you will be much more happy, healthy, wealthy and peaceful.

Observing this, those who criticize will make a mistake and by then this will be right.

The fault becoming right is CHANGE.
The lifeless fish will move with the flow and the live one will swim against current of flow.

In this way the change
· Initially will be ridiculed
· Then questioned
· Then criticized
· With great force it will be rejected
· And finally accepted

This is Change Management.

Saturday, June 20, 2009

Father – Old and New, Is the Role Same?

In this world we address any lady as Mother, but we don’t address every man as Father except our Father.

In earlier days as Father entered the house, due to fear, all used to be silent. He was very loveable and at the same time was very highly respected. Yesterday, Father was a dictator and what he said has to be followed.

Today Father is a good friend and the one who corrects good and bad and puts the children on the right track. As he returns back the children go and fall on him and enquire what he has brought for them that day and is the one who paves the Golden Road for their future.

In the past the Father never used to have any role in bringing up the children and only used to take the role of heading the family. He used to be authoritative, dictate rules and regulations along with the discipline that the family had to observe.

In today’s situation of nuclear families both the husband and wife are forced to share the responsibility equally and accordingly Love and Responsibility are handled by father and Affection by Mother. But the posture, conduct and the discipline are taught only by Father. We should encourage our children to take opportunity and learn these from him as they will not be taught in any university or by any personality development expert in any institution as all these have been experienced by him during his life.

Today the children with the aspirations of their career and its growth are having very less time and are not caring to spare some time to spend with their parents. Some of them are moving out of the country leaving their parents alone in old age homes and the parents are experiencing the draught of affection in their life.

With greater importance to communication the communication gaps are increasing and it is questioning the human relation itself. This is leading to the lack of love and affection and we also observe this as get togethers are on the down trend.

It is very heart fully to observe how sincerely the parents crave for the welfare of their children.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Learn to Earn Money

In this world today only those who cannot earn money would come out and go on to declare:
· Do we have necessity for money
· Do we need money
· Is money life

Money is required for all as a Necessity in the form of basic needs such as Food, Clothing and Shelter (Roti, Kapada Aur Makan) then we can have Comfort with it and as far as Luxury is concerned sky is the limit.

Different ways to Earn Money:1. Win - Win Move – A writer brings out a book for publication for R.100, the reader purchases the book with an investment to gain the knowledge. If the book is to his satisfaction, it is a mutual win-win situation.
2. Selling the Dreams – During consultancy providing suggestions for Vastu or predictions with Astrology. Here what is sold is satisfaction as the buyer will not get any profit except self satisfaction.
3. Deceiving – There is a group of people who sell words which are not real, if one follows he will be deceived and finally at a loss thus the deceiver gets profit and the deceived will be completely at a loss.

Is Money Earning An Art?A section of people tell that earning money is an art and certain people can only do that but not all. Though it appears to be reasonable, it is not true.
The following four qualities are necessary for anyone to earn money:
1. Intelligence
2. Skill
3. Investment
4. Effort

There is lot of Money in the world now, what is essential for us is to know where to put the bait for it, is it in equity shares or real estate or should we establish an Educational Institution, or beauty parlor in a good location etc. Once we know this then start believing that Money is there.

Money Atmosphere - Beside the above criteria money atmosphere is a very essential resource. Because a deep insight is needed as to how money can be generated with generous views and generous utility and generous conduct.

We should develop liking for money. Suppose we are going along Abids and find huge multistoried buildings, instead of thinking all these people have deceived by some means and got money, start thinking if I am able to put in efforts I will also be able to build such multi storied buildings.

The most important point being, have less infatuation on money and have a strong liking for money. Stop thinking of money with infatuation and not contented even with corers of rupees and in the process due to your carelessness you spoil your heath.

Forthcoming success
Everyone has ample opportunities to achieve success monetarily physically mentally and morally. If one achieves the first one it’s only for him to channelize to achieve the other roles. If someone fails to achieve success to get money at a particular time, one should not get disappointed. Repeated trails with meaningful efforts lead to success. But a person does not realize this dictum.

It is important to earn money but it’s equally more important to utilize it. If it is properly utilized at a proper time in a proper context the satisfaction achieved is all the more high. Some earn money but they do not know how to utilize it. They can utilize it in social service for charitable trust or any other philanthropic purpose and there by derive self satisfaction.

Man has to realize and understand the difference between the life and living. To achieve this one needs to have 6 prosperities, they are Health, Fame, Money, Wisdom, Inquisitiveness and Love. Of this Money is one of them. The Man who achieves these will climb the ladder and reach the stage of Self Actualization.