To achieve happiness, a person should wish that he wants to be happy. Desire it. Identify it and acknowledge it as much.
Invest in your self – because you are worth it. Every human being wants just one thing - to be happy. If your, self image is positive, you will convey positive to those around you.
Articulate your feelings – Write to the person a warm and sincere note appreciating the gesture. Pick up the phone and send a text. Make it a point to demonstrate your affection by reaching out briefly.
Listen with your heart not just with your ears.
Walk up to the person who has earned your respect and say so. It costs nothing but it goes a long way in long run.
In certain situations extending your help if it leads to a positive outcome, don’t hesitate as one should not walk away as a coward from the current crisis.
Cultivate habits of Reading, Listening to Music or Gardening:
· Reading – Books are true friends as they don’t ask us anything, they are self less and give us knowledge as we read.
· Music – We get great pleasure by listening to good music.
· Gardening - Grow a small garden. My own little garden in my home is very precious to me. One day as I wake up and see a rose in full bloom in my little garden, my sprits rise high with no limit. I take the arrival of each new leaf of every plant as a personal victory.
Money – We all need money to live. But we don’t need to chase it at the cost of everything else in our life.
Good Food has great recall – remembering a memorable meal is a pleasure in itself.
Drink - Don’t drink if you think that the alcohol will take away your sorrow.
Loosing with grace is an art in itself. Win some and loose some, that’s how it goes and always will.
Sound Sleep – Having sound sleep for 6 to 8 hours a day will let you relax well for the next day’s work. Calmness of mind is a beautiful jewel of wisdom.
There is a beautiful word called DAAN which defies accurate translation. It includes kindness and compassion, as much as donation and gifts that you share.
Nothing is impossible – the word impossible itself tells I am possible.
Make sure your identity that which you enjoy more than anything else – success is bound to follow you.
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